Saturday, November 21, 2009

I'm turning into a good Belgian-Greetings

Something I noticed is that here everyone greets everyone else when they arrive or leave somewhere. It can be nice, but sometimes I feel awkward if I don't really know them.

The other big thing I had to get used to was the 'kissing.' Of course, we only do it girl-to-girl, but it still was weird for me. Now even I do it. When you meet someone, you give a kind-of-side-hug, then make a kissing sound with your cheek next to theirs.

In a different part of Belgium, I heard they do 3 'kisses' and in France I think it is 2.

I just found this link...too bad I didn't discover it last summer ;)

Meeting Etiquette

. Greetings entail a degree of formality. A brief handshake is the common greeting among people who do not know each other.
. Once a relationship is developed, three kisses on the cheek may replace the handshake. This is more a kissing of the air near the person's cheek. Start with the left cheek and alternate.
. Men never kiss other men; they always shake hands.

5 comments:

  1. Lol! Weird. :P Greeks maul you. haha...:P

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  2. I'm glad you included that last part about men not kissing other men.

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  3. Yah, the men not kissing men is a good thing.... :) But, wow, that's alot of kissing if you have to kiss every person 3 times! and then they have to kiss you 3 times as well???

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  4. I think that what Leah was saying was that the tradition is not that women and men have to kiss each other....I don't think she was referring to same-gender exhange of kisses...?!

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  5. Interesting... I wouldn't do well there- I hate kissing/hugging people I don't really know!

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